Infatuation vs in born ability

he answer to the question, that is it possible to find out the suitable profession of a child at the T early stages, the answer is positively yes. It depends on the genetics, the tendency or habit patterns are ingrained deeply in a child from generations of its forefathers. Some would choose a profession quite uncharacteristic of their family and this happens due to karma. We can easily ascertain the chosen field of a child by observing its ways through Astrology. Leaving apart Astrological assumptions, how are we to ascertain the life of a child, as a parent? The focus and inclination of a child in a particular area shows him what kind of stuff he is. A child who learns better visually (visual learners), have little difficulty in learning by hearing, some may have extraordinary ability to learn just by hearing (auditory learners), and some learn easily through actions (kinesthitic learners), more over the field interest of a child can be felt unmistakably if the parents have eyes, ears and brilliance to identify what “material” he is. If nature and tendency of a child differs even in these basic methods of learning, imagine the effect of inculcating a whole branch of study through compulsion, the result will be disastrous.

T h e r e f o r e , i t b e c o m e s a p r e r e q u i s i t e t o c o n s i d e r a n Astrological Expert instead of choosing a psychological counsellor or a Doctor in his place, when it concerns to taking care of the future of a child. The purpose and reason of a child to be in this earth can be understood easily through analysing the genetics and karma accumulation in him. Through time and grace of God the opportunity to prove his ability naturally come in appropriate time. The “Divine will” or the Nature will do the rest in taking the child to its logical end. “Getting along in the fear of being left behind “is common psychological shortcoming experienced by all, they chose to follow the crowd. A child having a natural ability to become a painter forsakes all his dreams by getting into an Engineering College and ruining his career, by the way he not only ruining himself he also loses all the strength required to fight the harsh realities of this world. Infatuations are different from the Goals born out of “inborn ability”. The former is temporal while the later is fundamental. Infatuations will melt away with all the life situations peculiar to such and such ages. Goals remain unmoved, unbent, everremaining with full of energy like a roaring ocean. Infatuations develop quite easily, for example the oversensitive and the over-receptive mind of a child would easily develop an infatuation over a Doctor, if he happens to be within his eye's reach of the child, with his ways of life, his actions, his activities with his instruments and the style of handling it. But when he comes to a certain stage in his life say, high school, the reality will knock him out of his senses when he realises that he has to go through the subject of science on which he developed a deep dislike, to become a doctor he will suddenly spin out of his long accumulated dreams and thrown straight into reality. But when he understands that he can manage or even excel in the field of mathematics a healthy motivation along that direction may even land him in a profession of an Auditor. The parents with the responsibility to groom a child, unknowingly or arrogantly destroy the very nature and purpose of their existence, and that is the best of all worst paradoxes.